tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-46544660106275912402024-03-14T09:45:21.296+00:00jazz&jewelsPrecious gems of life - gathered, reflected on and sent from late night lounges - where martinis are dry and the soundtracks always fabulous.Cider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654466010627591240.post-50947413672509844552010-05-16T22:51:00.000+01:002010-05-16T22:51:02.103+01:00Playing around ....So i'm dipping a toe back into this funny old space... and as i opened up i felt that the colours should be lightened for summer.... so in the hope that summer might one day appear and all of our 2am's will be lighter and balmier as opposed to the glorious icy cocooned ones of the winter i have lightened up the page to celebrate!<br />
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And with this i shall start to re-emerge from my hibernation. It's too easy to hide from the world licking wounds and feeling blue...<br />
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Here marks my determined effort to step out once more... it's going to be hard to break the habit ... but break it i shall ...<br />
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A la prochaine xxxxxCider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654466010627591240.post-57101239384212206522010-04-28T00:19:00.000+01:002010-04-28T00:19:45.084+01:00This will forever be my farewell ....<object height="385" width="480"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/jmax47l2hLU&hl=en_US&fs=1&rel=0"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/jmax47l2hLU&hl=en_US&fs=1&rel=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"></embed></object><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #eeeeee;">Dearest D .... forever the moment we said farewell .... xx</span>Cider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654466010627591240.post-9696172779757168812010-04-28T00:14:00.001+01:002010-04-28T00:16:03.094+01:00con·do·lence [kuhn-doh-luhns]<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #f3f3f3;">Noun - </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 16px;"><span class="var" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.25em; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #f3f3f3;">Often, </span><span class="secondary-bf" style="display: inline; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 1.25em; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #f3f3f3;">condolences.</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #f3f3f3;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #f3f3f3;">expression of sympathy with a person who is suffering sorrow, misfortune, or grief.</span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 16px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #f3f3f3;">Here's a word - that evokes such specific feelings. A word that i had never truly understood until recently - it's a beautiful word - but one that i'd be so happy never to be the focus of again. It's a while since i wrote - and as you'll have seen we lost dearest D. </span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 16px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #f3f3f3;">So so suddenly - one moment i was sharing coffee in spring sunshine with cherished FRD and weighing up unpacking more boxes Vs spending time with D - and then i was in a car having received the call that we never want 'Come as quickly as you can'. </span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 16px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #f3f3f3;">We thought we still had weeks / months.... </span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 16px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #f3f3f3;">Time stood still ... every moment of the drive up the M1 is etched on my mind - as i drove - hoping and praying with every ounce of my strength that i would get there in time... steeling myself and strengthening my nerve for what would greet me when i arrived. It wasn't possible to speak to M and learn of the situation - it was only possible to drive and be there as soon as possible. Then i was there and D blew me a kiss... and said that he had an infection ... 24 hours he needed to get over it ... i hoped.. but knew that it wasn't true, that he hadn't heard what the Dr's had said... and for this i am grateful - he had no idea that as we chatted that evening it was to be his last .. </span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 16px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #f3f3f3;">He had no idea that as he kissed mum goodnight 'Big Love, ' he said, 'see you in the morning.' It would be the last he spoke to her ... the love that he'd spent 47 years with... </span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 16px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #f3f3f3;">He had no idea that as we chatted about the usual things... when he won a concours prize for his car ... the differences between NHS & Private ambulances (he was a great advocate of the NHS) ... the inconsequential things that filled those evening hours... </span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 16px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #f3f3f3;">No idea that they would be our last chats... </span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 16px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #f3f3f3;">Then silence - and suddenly - swiftly and suddenly he was gone - so gone. </span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 16px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #f3f3f3;">So so gone. </span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 16px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #f3f3f3;">Since then i've been witness to and at the centre of an immense outpouring of love and shock and grief... it still hasn't hit me... somehow i feel removed from so much... our world shifted that night - and despite knowing that the shift was coming towards us ... it was still a shock. Nothing could prepare me for the shock that death brings with it. There is no preparation. </span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 16px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #f3f3f3;">No other experience in life can replicate the starkness and finality of death. My head knows that there is nothing i could do that night - that all the medical care in the world wasn't going to prevent this ...the nurses knew he was going ..... but i am still tormented by 'what if i'd.....' 'what if i'd......' 'why didn't i.....' </span></span><br />
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The calendar date of April 7th.... &.... the midnight hour the day after Easter Monday ....<br />
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Dearest D - this will always be our song.<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I'm not sad to be leaving here .... it was a home that was always temporary so i've never rooted fully ... too small to entertain, and with funny neighbours i never overcame the temporary feeling ... also i think i know now that i am indeed a north london girl. I move back 'home' tomorrow to NW3 - next to Hampstead Heath - where i've lived so happily before. It feels like i'm moving home. </span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It's exciting .... and as i'm moving into a bigger space - i can for the first time since i went away to live in Africa 8 years ago - gather back all of my belongings and bring them under one roof. I'm almost as excited about getting all of my books and things - as i am about moving into a bigger space... </span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I started my new job last Monday ... and tomorrow move to my new home... </span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This is all going to make the next months with Dad so much more bearable.... </span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">A la prochaine xxx</span></span>Cider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654466010627591240.post-70710386046719725902010-03-14T07:00:00.002+00:002010-03-14T23:21:32.883+00:00Sunday 14th March ....<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8zd5RZgMwZs/S4_0RSOObRI/AAAAAAAAAEE/TWb6P1W8CQE/s1600-h/springpastelpink.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="106" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8zd5RZgMwZs/S4_0RSOObRI/AAAAAAAAAEE/TWb6P1W8CQE/s400/springpastelpink.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #330000; font-family: georgia, 'bookman old style', 'palatino linotype', 'book antiqua', palatino, 'trebuchet ms', helvetica, garamond, sans-serif, arial, verdana, 'avante garde', 'century gothic', 'comic sans ms', times, 'times new roman', serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse;"><br />
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</span> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #cccccc;"> </span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; border-collapse: collapse; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #cccccc;">Life has a funny rhythm for me at the moment - being someone who loves to hang out and spend time with my friends - i'm not seeing much of them. My weekdays are dominated by work and my weekends are spent on motorways and with my parents. I'm missing my friends... I had a lovely evening last night with a bunch of the nears and dears - it was fun .... and lovely to hear how life is moving on for everyone - this winter has been long and cold (and emotionally i've felt quite bleak.... ) but there are good and exciting things taking root all around - new homes being searched for - new jobs - travels being planned....</span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; border-collapse: collapse; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #cccccc;"><br />
</span> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #cccccc;"> </span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; border-collapse: collapse; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #cccccc;">Lovely things to contemplate .. and anticipate... </span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; border-collapse: collapse; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #cccccc;"><br />
</span> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #cccccc;"> </span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; border-collapse: collapse; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #cccccc;">For me it feels like spring is coming in a beautiful way - i leave my job on Tuesday ... i've been there for 3 years and had some of the best and worst of times... i work for an amazing organisation which does incredible work - and i've contributed massively .. but as with everywhere, happiness in a job is more dependent upon the immediate relationships around you than the merits of the wider organisation ... and it is this that i have suffered from. So i am leaving - with modest regret that my time there hasn't been all that it could have been, but also with confidence that i have done everything possible to change things and i 'gave it my best'. But my 'spring' feeling comes from the exciting project that i am joining .... me and my 'business partner' are launching a new organisation - which is scary and exciting all at the same time... the business plan started last october (perfect time for planting) and now is the time for me to join full time to nurture the first shoots as they emerge. We have a big organisation to build so the roots need to be strong! All the signs are good ... and as the months roll by i'm sure i shall start to reveal what we're doing! But ssshhhhhh for now!!!! </span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; border-collapse: collapse; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #cccccc;"><br />
</span> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #cccccc;"> </span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; border-collapse: collapse; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #cccccc;">The rest of the bounce in my steps comes from the fact that at the end of March i'm returning to my beloved North London... after a stint 'South of the River' i'm returning to the place that is home - and heading back to Hampstead. So a summer of picnics on the Heath, swimming in the Lido and gardening my new little garden is ahead. </span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; border-collapse: collapse; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #cccccc;"><br />
</span> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #cccccc;"> </span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; border-collapse: collapse; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #cccccc;">Oohhhhhhh ... spring is going to be gooooooood....... all of which will give me the emotional nourishment to 'bear' up as we continue to battle Dad's illness.... and hopefully some space to spend more time with friends.... </span></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; border-collapse: collapse; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #cccccc;"><br />
</span> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #cccccc;"> </span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; border-collapse: collapse; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #cccccc;">So as i contemplate the spring joy ahead in my life - what are you contemplating at the moment? </span></span></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; border-collapse: collapse; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #cccccc;"><br />
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Nope - not disappointed at all!<br />
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I will post a photo in due course - but just now imagine this ring -<br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">The last few months have been pretty stressful - and wreaked havoc with all things 'manicurial' .... (i think i've just made up a word!) so now i have a wonderful motivation to buff, shine and rub oil into my nails and cuticles (ravaged!) so that my rings are worn on fingers worthy of them!!! </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">After we'd spent time making sure the rings were sized correctly and they sat perfectly on my hand... we then retreated from the workshop and talked about other 'bits and pieces' that i'd like to do to the jewels that i have ... glasses of wine were poured and we had a lovely old time - so Anne & John are going to dismantle a pair of diamond ear-rings and surprise me with their thoughts. The aim - to add some diamonds to a pretty tear drop amethyst pendant that i have and to leave me with a pair of 'day' diamond ear-rings. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br />
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This formed part of my 'Soundtrack to living in Africa' - i was introduced to Hotel Costes by a 'Spring-Fling' before leaving the country (he gave me great emotional diversion from all the stuff that goes with moving overseas - emptying and renting my beloved flat, coping with my step out of the corporate fast lane, saying goodbye to the beloved family dog - Shannon, and stepping into the unknown) and my leaving gift from him was a series of Mini-Discs (who knew the iPod would storm in so soon?) with both my favourite albums (which he mocked!) and some new introductions - The Dandy Warhols, Fun lovin' criminals, Hotel Costes ... amongst others.<br />
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He made me up my little box of 10 Mini Discs (around 50 albums - so not a bad selection) which gave me the confidence as i left the country that no matter where in the world i pitched up - i could turn on some music making the very unfamiliar feel instantly like home.<br />
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It worked - he made me some inspired selections<br />
<ul><li>The 11'o'clock selection - Perfect for late at night after an evening out - it's tracks built up a party and then chilled down .... </li>
<li>The Driving selection .. </li>
<li>The Chill Out disc </li>
<li>The Party tracks - which seemed to perfectly warm up a party to dancing, keep it going for a while - and then chill down again ... </li>
</ul><div>I stored some stuff in his attic and flew away - knowing that we had been what we were meant to be and he'd held a lovely space in my life... </div><div><br />
</div><div>There were times in 'oh so hot' Africa that i would yearn for a cold wet blustery London day - and more than that - i'd yearn to walk into a pub with a roaring fire and a group of friends who knew me of old. The perfect 'London in the rain' kind of day. <br />
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A la prochain x</div>Cider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654466010627591240.post-51951487908540217702010-03-07T23:52:00.000+00:002010-03-07T23:52:54.127+00:00Spring heaven!How the days can bring huge change... after yesterdays post i woke up this morning and Dad was like a new man - so much stronger and more himself than yesterday. Such a transformation - i do hope for more and more days like this.<br />
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There's a lot to be said for 'mind over body' i'm pretty sure that his 'lift' was in part due to the prospect of us going to see a 'cheeky little sportscar' for him.... the long & the short of it is that he didn't come with me, but i spent most of this glorious day driving the length and breadth of england (believe me!) to see a car that we'd found... so i had lots of thinking time, with the hood down and the sun on my face - it's so restoring being under blue skies (even if most of it is at ahem mph on the M5!) and whilst i was driving i remembered an album that i loved about 10 years ago (The Jazz Passengers with Elvis Costello - Individually Twisted) - i haven't heard it for so long, it's in a box in storage - ooooh i can't wait to move into my new flat at the end of March. For the first time since before i lived in Africa i'll have all of my boxes in one space!!!!<br />
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(All those miles are making me deviate.... ) So - to celebrate my pending reunion with so many boxes, Dad being on great form today and the purchase of a rather beautiful little car .... i've attached a couple of great tracks from the album!!!<br />
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</div></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Bear with this one - It's Debbie Harry singing the funkiest version of 'the Tide is high' ever... at the beginning the sound guys clearly hadn't got the levels right - but they sort them out pretty soon.....</div><div style="text-align: center;">Crazy tune!!!! </div><div style="text-align: center;"><object height="265" width="320"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/u-PK17YfjMc&hl=en_GB&fs=1&rel=0"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/u-PK17YfjMc&hl=en_GB&fs=1&rel=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="320" height="265"></embed></object></div><br />
The winds of hope are blowing into life... wishing you all happy weeks -<br />
A la prochaine xxxCider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654466010627591240.post-71324434740275180962010-03-06T23:15:00.002+00:002010-03-06T23:29:55.488+00:00Loss...<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">is always a painful thing - so many different ways of experiencing it but there's no nice way. The very nature of it is that something is being taken away from us that we don't want to lose. Sudden and shocking or slow and lingering - at the end of the day it's still loss. </span><br />
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</span> </div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Such a little thing that represents so much more.. the first outward sign that this battle is being lost and the light of hope is dimming. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br />
</span> </div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Before i knew about this Dad and I had been out for a drive,it was a sunny spring day, the hood was down on the car and i couldn't help think that this time last year he was fighting fit and seemed immortal. As we drove past the Golf Club he just said very quietly 'One of my greatest regrets is that i won't play again'....it made me realise that the cheesy epithet 'live each day as though it were your last' were so true - there's a random game of golf that he played last August before he fell ill with a 'chest infection' that will live on as his last game of golf. At the time it was 'just another game' - i have no idea who he played with, or how he played .... but that one was the last one he played ..... this was before i knew about the membership - oh how painful that must have felt for him. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br />
</span> </div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">40 odd years of playing golf - brilliantly and badly - all over the world... and one day last august he played a casual game with some mates (oh i do hope he was playing with people he liked!!) .... and that was it - the end of his game. I won't play with him again ... i hardly really played with him much... last time was when i lived in the South of France, he played really badly and i played way better than someone who's never really committed to playing regularly deserves to... it makes me laugh now because for 'our last game' it wasn't the most relaxed of affairs ( at one point his putter almost went into a lake!!!!) </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br />
</span> </div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Gradually his conversations are littered with references to his mortality ... 'I should give you my .......' is becoming a frequent comment - and then he drifts off into a quiet land of thoughts .... </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br />
</span> </div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Mum and i closed in together tonight, it's been a tough tough week for her, the golf club is one of many steps that are outwardly stating that this fight is slowly being lost... we just sat and wept for a while..... and then stopped... and hung out with dad watching tv... it comes in waves this sense of loss - sometimes little ones - but this weekend feels like a little tsunami has hit this precious home. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br />
</span> </div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Dear ones - i never meant this to be the role of this space... but i find the writing so cathartic ... may the daffodils open soon and the spring winds blow in some new hope... </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br />
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Great track - great entertainment ... and i love the fact that Nathalie comes on stage at the end to join in the mime!<br />
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Who thought mime could be such a giggle!<br />
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Another spring song - there's spring in the air and a spring in my step when i listen to this! If you like this track - check out the rest of Joe's album 'I like this one' on iTunes.<br />
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A la prochaine xxxCider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654466010627591240.post-57982085750889250882010-03-04T19:31:00.002+00:002010-03-04T20:11:16.676+00:00Jazz heaven...<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Lucida Grande'; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 11px;"><br />
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I wonder if it's my favourite because it's the first real jazz club i went to (oh so long ago at such a tender age)? Or because i go there so often that i feel completely relaxed and at home there? Is it because i'm a regular so know a few faces and feel welcomed? Or that it's a great venue - intimate and comfortable - dark and seductive - and being one of the best haunts in town the music is always always always good.....<br />
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I can't quite put my finger on why it's my favourite - but, dear ones, it is a place that i will happily spend an evening on my own - enjoying a glass of something - lost in the music - feeling utterly content. I think that says a lot about the ambience, atmosphere and charm of the staff. I have a backlog of evenings there - occasionally on my own, more often 'a deux' or with groups of friends - sometimes even lucky dates get to come along too. Last night was a gentle evening with a friend from work - having a farewell celebration as soon i am off to pastures new.<br />
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I'll admit now that when i got home (at a delicious 3am - ooops!) i did start to write a post, but honestly dear ones, it's coherence reflected the hour & the state of mind - and in an attempt to be reasonably attentive in all my meetings today wisdom prevailed & i chose sleep above writing so here i am now enjoying the opportunity to reflect back on an evening rather than dashing headlong into another!<br />
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It was a mad dash from a long day at the office but upon entering the gentle hush of the club the hassles of the world fell from my shoulders and stayed outside in the cold, sharp night. Lovely candlelit tables, deep red velvet banquette to sink into - a menu of cocktails and delicious treats proffered by a charming waiter oooh i was instantly transported to my happy place. I adore the mix of people that you find in there - nearby was a table with what looked like 3 generations of family celebrating a 70th birthday, couples of all ages, at least one first date, groups of friends, people on their own hanging out and chatting at the bar and a table of 4 guys that looked like father, brother and two sons.... but then again ... you never can tell what the connections are. Beautifully dressed elegance and casual laid back jazz cool - there is a little of everything in every way.<br />
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We were in for a treat indeed - the house band were lively and excited and warmed us up well - the stage was set for a big band extravanganza and as it was introduced we felt that it was the end of an era. The main gig for the evening was <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Guy_Barker">Guy Barker</a> with his big band. Last time i saw Guy's big band playing there was a Trombone player - <a href="http://jazzwisemagazine.com/the-player-mainmenu-131/6386-barnaby-dickinson-trombone">Barnaby Dickinson</a> - who in one evening moved my enjoyment of the trombone from ambivalence to enchantment! And he was back - more than that, this 4 nights in London precedes a tour of Hong Kong so you could sense that the band were excited to be together - there were laughs on stage and much fun during the gig. In addition to the Amadeus Suite, a set of pieces inspired by characters from Mozarts operas (highbrow eh!) we settled in for what they deemed could possibly be their last performance of 'DZf'<br />
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DZf is a suite of music which plays alongside a narrative story told by <a href="http://www.michaelbrandon.net/">Michael Brandon</a>. Now - if ever there was a 'voice of a jazz bar' Brandon has it - deep and gravelly with a soft and grizzly american accent he 'speaks' jazz within every word. This man can 'be jazz' without the music. But sit him in front of a 14 piece jazz orchestra and behind a microphone there is no need for pictures - the story is told in unmistakeable style through the words and music. What a story it is - this is the Magic Flute - retold as never before - thriller writer Robert Ryan takes Mozart's story and translates it into a 'Jazz Noir' tale. Set in Brooklyn the characters are gritty and the music takes you on a journey from seedy bars (hatted brass wah wah waahhing ...) through swingy starsky and hutch style car chase music into big bold James Bond big band jazz....<br />
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It was huge!<br />
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By this point i saw that the 'first date' had fallen asleep on 'his' shoulders.... (good signs?) ... the 70th birthday were ready to swing ... and the 'four men' were deep into the whisky... perfect - the evening was taking a grip...<br />
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The applause stopped and we had a breather whilst the BBC took over the place - not the normal run of affairs, but it appears that there's a documentary series being filmed 'My First Love' which traces celebrities back to their performing roots.... we were treated to <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meera_Syal">Meera Syal</a> on stage, known as a comedienne, writer and actress she started out as a singer in a jazz band... and she held the stage - with a haunting voice rich with powerful emotion she could easily return to 'Her first love'. She was beautifully humble about the evening as well and seemed truly thrilled to be afforded the 'indulgence' (her words) of singing on such a prestigious stage.<br />
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It was now buzzing and suddenly there appeared a couple of friends i hadn't expected to see ... so we left the downstairs club and took off up to the Jam Session upstairs.... there's a completely different vibe upstairs, suddenly much brighter and buzzier - i love that at 2am there were people arriving (with laptop bags - had they really come from the office?!) it's slightly chaotic as the musicians heading home from the west end shows swing by on their way home have a few drinks and jam together - so you never know what you're going to get - but you can guarantee that it'll be good..... last night we were treated to an amazing trumpeter -he dominated the show - wandering off the stage into the middle of the room playing to the moon he was in a world of his own - stunning!<br />
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And then after some entertaining chat ... it was time to tear myself away - emerge from this decadent slice of life into the heart of Soho - on a dark, cold and foggy night. 2.30am on a Thursday morning and it's buzzing (- this is what i love of London!) - a taxi cab is free and soon i am whisked home to my warm and cosy space... wondering how on earth i would survive a morning full of hectic meetings!<br />
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But i survived - and after all - we only live once xxxxCider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654466010627591240.post-26022390426010026202010-03-04T17:24:00.001+00:002010-03-04T17:25:09.528+00:00The stories that a passport can tell...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8zd5RZgMwZs/S4_sdtcgn9I/AAAAAAAAAD8/dcW1phKhdTI/s1600-h/UK-Passport-Cover.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8zd5RZgMwZs/S4_sdtcgn9I/AAAAAAAAAD8/dcW1phKhdTI/s200/UK-Passport-Cover.jpg" width="141" /></a></div><br />
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Today i picked up my new passport from the passport office - it's very new, the gold embossed crest is very bright, it's stiff and ... well, empty. I didn't really think twice when i was submitting the application - but i'm feeling quite sad that i'm no longer going to be using my old passport.<br />
The decade just closing was one of many travels and adventures - i lived in Africa, travelling widely across the African continent and then explored Australia, New Zealand, USA, Japan and the Middle East - and whenever i pull out my passport it always prompts a moment of reflection about the adventures contained within (as well as a moment of oooh have i got a spare page?). <br />
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My passport looked after me well - and at the end of it's decade it looks well worn, well loved and only has 2 empty pages left ... it was time....<br />
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Whilst i am an absolute lover of technology and actively promote its use and application as widely and effectively as possible - i do hope that we don't move to a 'sim card' type of passport - tracking and recording our movements onto a microchip (oooh that does sound sinister) - there's something utterly romantic about having a passport physically stamped - as a record of our footsteps around the world. Seeing the different languages on each page and the visas stuck randomly about feels like a precious record. Being greeted into a new country by the (often surly) immigration official is one of those moments of 'officialdom' that holds a slight frisson of tension - sometimes executed in silence - sometimes it's like a mini interrogation (are they really trying to catch me out?!) until eventually the imposing stamp is pounded into the pages of my passport and i'm free to explore a whole new territory. It's so simple to travel these days - but that moment is still a precious and exciting one ...<br />
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So my old passport is useless - with corners removed - i have a new 28 pages to fill - i wonder what adventures this one has in store.....<br />
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A la prochaine xCider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654466010627591240.post-88044340163804193192010-03-02T23:53:00.000+00:002010-03-02T23:53:29.373+00:00Skip out the back Jack - Make a new plan Stan ....<div style="text-align: center;"><object height="265" width="320"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/mc_RHbXjE2A&hl=en_GB&fs=1&rel=0"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/mc_RHbXjE2A&hl=en_GB&fs=1&rel=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="320" height="265"></embed></object></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">I love this track - there's something cheeky and playful about it. I remember hearing it when i was a teenager and wondering if i would ever have such a carefree attitude to romance - </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">And i'll always chose Rosemary Clooney's version above Paul Simon - she adds such wit and depth to the lyrics. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">For such a topic - why does this song make me smile so? </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">A la prochaine xx</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div>Cider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654466010627591240.post-26419003818230042922010-03-02T21:14:00.002+00:002010-03-02T22:43:49.598+00:00Ultimate indulgence -<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8zd5RZgMwZs/S417v1CWrZI/AAAAAAAAAD0/wgtmIQWsi7w/s1600-h/6a00d834de455f53ef0115703a85e5970c.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8zd5RZgMwZs/S417v1CWrZI/AAAAAAAAAD0/wgtmIQWsi7w/s320/6a00d834de455f53ef0115703a85e5970c.png" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.theletteredcottage.net/2009/06/inspiring-bathroom-photos.html">Thanks to here... </a></div><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Occasionally when i'm not lusting over new jewels and dreaming of beautiful music i think that taking a bath in the afternoon is the ultimate indulgence. Possibly because afternoon bathing is associated with beautiful evenings ahead - and somehow there's something utterly decadent about bathing in bright sunlight.</span><br />
There are other times though when having a bath is an act of retreat - when it is important to find a place of solitude and tranquil peace - when having a bath not only cleans us physically, but gives our minds a breather from everything going on.<br />
This is what i think Dodie Smith captures beautifully -<br />
"I believe it is customary to get one's washing over first in baths and bask afterwards; personally, I bask first. I have discovered that the first few minutes are the best and not to be wasted-- my brain always seethes with ideas and life suddenly looks much better than it did."<br />
<div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">— </span><a class="authorNameRegular" href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/6208.Dodie_Smith" style="color: #663300; text-decoration: none;" title="view all quotes by Dodie Smith"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Dodie Smith</span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"> (</span><a class="bookTitleRegular" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/quotes/31122" style="color: #663300; text-decoration: none;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">I Capture the Castle</span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">)</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">A la prochaine xx</span></div>Cider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654466010627591240.post-10317611900642039682010-03-02T14:21:00.006+00:002010-03-02T22:44:21.961+00:00Spring is in the air....<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10px; white-space: pre;"><object height="265" width="320"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/0mjcmkNkpxA&hl=en_GB&fs=1&rel=0"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/0mjcmkNkpxA&hl=en_GB&fs=1&rel=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="320" height="265"></embed></object></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">The milder days and the blue skies are definitely bringing with them the feeling that the long winter is coming to an end - perfect moment to and celebrate with something warm and summery.<br />
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I stumbled across Ernest Ranglin a couple of years ago whilst having coffee with friends at Spitalfields market - we were slightly fragile from a party the night before and after an hour or so's mooching we found a fabulous coffee hideout - right next to a music stall. The stall was playing 'Below the Bassline' - Ernest Ranglin and i was enchanted - i bought it straight away and it's become a real saturday morning soundtrack.</span> <br />
<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">It's chilled out and funky with a reggae beat - but above all it's happy music - i can't imagine not smiling to it. </span><br />
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<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">So welcome, dear ones to Spring - the sun is coming and the grey skies are disappearing - sit back and lift your face to the sun whilst this plays.<br />
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A la prochaine x</span> </div></div></div>Cider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654466010627591240.post-33056961824092791292010-03-01T02:13:00.002+00:002010-03-01T02:13:00.257+00:00It's true...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8zd5RZgMwZs/S4rcKFuHEHI/AAAAAAAAADs/JyJeVQUPeP4/s1600-h/4199058223_44269def69.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8zd5RZgMwZs/S4rcKFuHEHI/AAAAAAAAADs/JyJeVQUPeP4/s320/4199058223_44269def69.jpg" /></a></div>Cider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654466010627591240.post-56477350855077825952010-02-28T18:49:00.003+00:002010-03-02T22:45:38.506+00:00Who'd have thought...<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">That lunch at a Railway Station would be so good?</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">I knew that the Champagne Bar at St Pancras was beautiful - but i hadn't stumbled across the St Pancras Grand Restaurant... and all i want to know is why didn't anyone tell me?</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">I met some friends for lunch today - and in addition to beautiful food, fabulous company and delicious wine ... there's a jazz trio playing every sunday between 12-4pm ...</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">It's elegance is of a time gone by, heavy linen & silver (divine silver buckets that hold the bread) extravagant decor topped with heavenly food. I had melt in the mouth mackerel & kedgeree - on a blustery grey day.</span><br />
Perfect!<br />
If you are going along check out the offers on Top Table - £15 for 2 courses was a delicious bargain.<br />
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Should you go to St Pancras leave enough time to take a moment and enjoy the fabulous statue of John Betjeman - he's gazing in wonder at the vast arches of the station (slightly buffeted by the wind) and the sculpture absolutely captures that perfectly ...I hadn't realised how much he did to preserve British architecture - apparently in the 60's he battled to save St Pancras from being demolished.<br />
You learn something wonderful every day -<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">A la prochain xx</span>Cider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654466010627591240.post-52091515063114111882010-02-27T23:22:00.002+00:002010-03-02T22:46:37.213+00:00Choice....<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Can be the greatest of tormentors - And the most wonderful of friends.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">A few years ago i lived in Africa for a while - the work i was doing was the most fulfilling i've ever done - on almost every level - it drew together all of my skills perfectly and i loved it. I loved living in Malawi - i had fabulous friends - i was part of something great.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Before i returned to Europe (and indeed frequently since) i was offered my 'perfect job' on a permanent basis. To take partnership and embed myself in the organisation that i worked for.</span><br />
It was a really difficult choice ...<br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">... really really difficult....</span><br />
... i didn't take it .... there was somewhere deep deep within me the desire to be around my parents as they got older. There was within me a responsibility that i should be nearby both to enjoy them, but also to support them.<br />
Where this seed was sown from i have no idea - it hasn't come from them - but it is within me.<br />
I often return to that decision - and have never regretted it ...<br />
I'm so glad that i'm here right now. I've had a lovely day ... Dad was singing to himself this afternoon - it made me smile about yesterdays post - i played football with the dog in the garden - and i've begun to plan my future in the new home that i viewed this morning. Most of all - i gave Mum a rest.<br />
Be still this gentle house and let everyone sleep happily tonight. The wonderful work in Malawi will be there for another time ... or another person.Cider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654466010627591240.post-21847836364377429602010-02-27T00:12:00.005+00:002010-03-02T22:43:12.701+00:00This is our song -<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Lucida Grande'; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 11px;"></span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Lucida Grande'; font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 11px;"><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium;"><object height="265" width="320"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/ExmoiGZuiFQ&hl=en_GB&fs=1&rel=0"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/ExmoiGZuiFQ&hl=en_GB&fs=1&rel=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="320" height="265"></embed></object></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">- and when i say 'our' - i mean Dad & I. </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">There is no question that my love of jazz stems from being immersed in the music of Ella & Louis (amongst others) as i was growing up. I've inherited my love of music from Dad and this is the song that i can hear him singing as he wanders around any one of the houses that i grew up in. It's also the song that i can remember him singing as he dropped me off at school at the start of terms and the end of weekends at home (yes i was 'away at school') which, when you listen to the lyrics makes it an enchanting memory - but, dear reader, Dad's not that kind of sentimentalist, it's far more likely that he was singing it because he loves to sing certain songs rather than giving me a sweet & emotional send off back into a new term! </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">I haven't heard Dad singing it for some time now - but i hope i will again. </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Last September we were stunned by the 'C' word - out of the blue it hit the heart of us (and close to the heart of him). Dad was diagnosed with lung cancer. It's a vile disease & the treatment is brutal - truly brutal. </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">So we are on that rocky road that is well known to so many - the battle against a vile and invasive disease - the one that batters physically, mentally and emotionally & from which there seems to be no respite. It dominates our conversations, our diaries and has changed the shape of us both individually and as a family. But in the midst of this invasion - there is a precious and beautiful dimension - there are weekends together at home - Woody Allen films to giggle at - favourite foods to prepare, pouring love into them every step of the way. </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">And soon i hope to hear dad singing as he wanders about the house again.</span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">I have no intention of writing an account of living with cancer nearby - but equally i have no intention of writing my life as if it didn't exist. I can, and do, rage against the injustice of it - I am crippled by the thought that when i meet the man i am destined to marry, Dad won't be there, and i'll never hear him make 'that speech'. He's been the single biggest influence in my life and i can't imagine the shape of my world without him. </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">But i am so thankful that i have a window of love to share with him - a window of weekends together at home - Woody Allen films to giggle at - Favourite foods to prepare - and i have the chance to reshape my hectic life to include more of home in it. </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">I don't think that i was ever described as a 'Daddy's girl' - we've never shared that kind of enchanted relationship. Along with my love of music I get my strong character, independent streak and my determination from him ... there's a U2 lyric that resonates - from a track that Bono wrote about his Father - "</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">We fight all the time , You and I...that's alright, We're the same soul, I don't need...I don't need to hear you say, That if we weren't so alike, You'd like me a whole lot more" (Sometimes You can't make it on your own - U2). So fair to say that i've never been a 'Daddy's girl' in that sweetest of senses - but i've never questioned his love or his support. </span></span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">But just now - I'm definitely a Daddy's girl and we're both loving it.</span></span></span></span></div></div><div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">So this is our song - the bit of jazz that is my precious precious gem & i'm so glad that i've found my very favourite rendition of it to share with you. This is the recording that i grew up on - i swear you can hear Louis Armstrong smiling as he sings. </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Listen to it dear ones and may it's gentle beauty warm your heart as much as it warms mine. </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />
</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span></div></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">A la prochaine x </span></span></div></div></span></div></span></span>Cider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654466010627591240.post-70666509739885377382010-02-26T23:13:00.009+00:002010-03-02T22:39:27.532+00:00The saddest poem.... My favourite poet-<span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 2px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 2px; border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"></span><br />
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</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span></span></b><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #999999;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span></span></b><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #999999;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span></span></b><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #999999;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span></span></b></div><div style="text-align: center;"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #999999;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">'To hear the immense night, more immense without he</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #999999;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">r'</span></span></span></b></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Sums up perfectly that 2am feeling of loneliness and solitude that can hit at the unlikeliest of times. That there is now a space where once there was someone ...</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">This was the feeling i had last night - out of the blue i was wide awake and feeling the immensity of London and my insignificance within it. To avoid thoughts of love, loss and what once was, i shifted my thoughts to thinking about what to post today - and then i returned to a space that is becoming familiar to me ... What is this blog about? How much of me do i release? Is this 'me' or another version of 'me'? </span></span><br />
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</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">I don't have answers to these questions but i do know that there is so much of significance going on in my life that if i don't share some of it then i will remain one dimensional on this screen.</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">For now i will leave you with these beautifully haunting words - but soon i shall share more of my story with you ... </span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">A la prochain dear ones... x</span></span><br />
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Write, for instance: "The night is full of stars,<br />
and the stars, blue, shiver in the distance."<br />
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The night wind whirls in the sky and sings.<br />
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I can write the saddest poem of all tonight.<br />
I loved her, and sometimes she loved me too.<br />
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On nights like this, I held her in my arms.<br />
I kissed her so many times under the infinite sky.<br />
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She loved me, sometimes I loved her.<br />
How could I not have loved her large, still eyes?<br />
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I can write the saddest poem of all tonight.<br />
To think I don't have her. To feel that I've lost her.<br />
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To hear the immense night, more immense without her.<br />
And the poem falls to the soul as dew to grass.<br />
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What does it matter that my love couldn't keep her.<br />
The night is full of stars and she is not with me.<br />
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That's all. Far away, someone sings. Far away.<br />
My soul is lost without her.<br />
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As if to bring her near, my eyes search for her.<br />
My heart searches for her and she is not with me.<br />
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The same night that whitens the same trees.<br />
We, we who were, we are the same no longer.<br />
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I no longer love her, true, but how much I loved her.<br />
My voice searched the wind to touch her ear.<br />
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Someone else's. She will be someone else's. As she once<br />
belonged to my kisses.<br />
Her voice, her light body. Her infinite eyes.<br />
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I no longer love her, true, but perhaps I love her.<br />
Love is so short and oblivion so long.<br />
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Because on nights like this I held her in my arms,<br />
my soul is lost without her.<br />
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Although this may be the last pain she causes me,<br />
and this may be the last poem I write for her. </span> </b><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"> </span></b><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Pablo Neruda </span></b><br />
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</tbody></table>Cider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654466010627591240.post-82346644231039579602010-02-26T00:32:00.001+00:002010-03-02T22:38:58.437+00:00Raindrops keep falling....<div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">But i'm sure that i wouldn't feel so blue if i had this to keep me dry ... </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8zd5RZgMwZs/S4cV7zRrudI/AAAAAAAAABw/T8ZAv_kmuXI/s1600-h/LG_Eliza2_every_cloud_open_main.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8zd5RZgMwZs/S4cV7zRrudI/AAAAAAAAABw/T8ZAv_kmuXI/s320/LG_Eliza2_every_cloud_open_main.jpg" /></span></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">Every cloud would then have a silver lining! </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">I wonder if i'd love it enough not to leave it on a bus..... </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">if you'd like a silver lining you can find one </span><a href="http://www.simplyumbrellas.co.uk/index.php/cPath/29_62"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">here</span></a></div>Cider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654466010627591240.post-34101512167962200112010-02-24T23:55:00.000+00:002010-02-25T00:01:46.318+00:00I wish i'd been this smart at 5.....<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8zd5RZgMwZs/S4W79B4lcxI/AAAAAAAAABg/r5892pqfl64/s1600-h/tumblr_kxq3j60qcM1qzr04eo1_400.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8zd5RZgMwZs/S4W79B4lcxI/AAAAAAAAABg/r5892pqfl64/s320/tumblr_kxq3j60qcM1qzr04eo1_400.jpg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Thanks to 'm.k.' - From a great fun blog -<a href="http://icanread.tumblr.com/"> I can read </a></div>Cider&Roseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16159305795394162908noreply@blogger.com0